THE SOBREMESA PHILOSOPHY

Leadership is a practice.

Leadership is not reserved for people with titles or formal authority. It is a practice available to all of us. It is expressed through the choices we make about who we are, how we engage with others, and how we contribute to the world around us.

A leadership practice is not discovered fully formed. It develops through intentional experimentation. We notice what is happening, explore what may be possible, practise in real situations, reflect on our experience and impact, and refine how we move forward.

A RECURRING CYCLE

ircular practice-cycle graphic showing Notice, Discover, Practice, Reflect, and Refine as recurring actions around Designing a Leadership Practice.

How leadership practice unfolds

NOTICE

Attend to what is happening within us, between people, and around us.


DISCOVER

Explore what may be present, possible, or not yet understood.


PRACTICE

Bring intention into real situations and learn through experience.


REFLECT

Make meaning from what happened and how it affected us, and others.


REFINE

Adapt, integrate, and carry the learning forward.


These are not linear steps to complete. We move among them as experience and circumstances require.

PRINCIPLES

What grounds the practice?

Leadership respects the dignity and agency of others.


Intention matters, but it does not erase impact.


Authenticity does not excuse harmful behaviour.


Leadership requires integrity, responsibility, and a willingness to learn.


A leadership practice should expand possibility without relying on manipulation, coercion, or domination.


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Continue the practice

These ideas become meaningful when they are explored in real situations. You might begin with a current leadership question, a skill you want to strengthen, or an experience you want to understand more clearly.